but then ....
things were getting worse, not better. And you know that old saying "it'll get worse before it gets better."? yea. i embodied that. i was scared. i felt so alone in it. i looked up again symptoms of coming off the certain med i was coming off from and it fit to a T. but i was still afraid. i wondered if i was doing the right thing. i wondered if i was making things worse. i wondered if i was completely crazy. i wondered if i should go back on the medication, find a different one. but i kept choosing to wean from it.
in the next 2 months from October 31, i experienced things i've never experienced before. physically; i experienced dizziness 24/7. it did not matter what i was doing. when i opened my eyes in the morning and thought "maybe today ... it will be gone." i had to steady myself with the table to keep from falling over. it didn't matter if i was turning my head slightly to see if it was safe to make a left hand turn while driving, my world was sent into a spin. My head felt like it was not even attached to my neck and shoulders. i had experienced vaginal bleeding for 3 months on top of the 3 weeks i was already experiencing the bleeding.
emotionally; it was torture. i wondered if i would ever get better. it was like clickbait for my mind to wander to negative land. on my drive to work, i would use the 15 minute drive to pray and ask God to realign the things that were out of whack. i would hardly get a few words out before i would have to swallow my tears so my makeup wouldn't run all over. i would feel the warm water of tears begin to well up over the lids of my eyes and shut it down immediately. then i would get angry at myself and angry at what was happening inside of my brain and my body. i would scream in my car at God, telling Him how frustrated and angry i was. i probably looked like a psycho.
spiritually; i knew that God was with me. i knew that He could see me. I knew that He would see me through it all. but i did not feel it. i could not feel Him with me. and you can't feel faith. it was a hard choice every single moment, to choose to believe that He was with me, that He would help me. that He was a good dad. some of my fight was beginning to come back when i would declare the truths of His Word over my life. calling out things that were not as though they were. I know that might sound crazy. but the bible says that faith without works is dead. so i was going to believe what the Word said, even if it sounded ridiculous. So i would pray and thank God for the things that were not, as though they were. "God, thank you that this bleeding issue is tapering off in Jesus name." "God thank you that your Name heals." "God thank you that this dizziness is coming to an end"
I reached out to a friend and let her know what was happening and if she could help me. I was on the phone with her for 30 minutes and had a plan of attack. I immediately began implementing new supplements with my daily ones i was already taking. Phytoestrogen -- to begin to balance out my hormones that were out of sorts. Pharma-GABA to help with my anxiety. 5 HTP to help with depression. Probiotics to bring alignment back into my gut and immune system and also helps with mood swings. Niacin tablets to restore energy. Raw Zinc -- which probably helps with my memory since i can't remember what it's for, but i researched it out.
|Landon helps me smile.|
If going on this medication has helped me to see anything, it's that i can use natural things to help me because it wasn't helping me to feel better. its been an overwhelming year. and I'm praying that God is going to overwhelm those things that have overwhelmed me, that what looked like a defeat is just a really good setup for a huge victory.
Jesus, help me.
Jesus, come quick.
Jesus, thank you for 2017.
on a closing note, the bleeding has nearly tapered off and so has the dizziness.